Story of Youth 28 Years Love Grandma 82 Years

Sofian Loho Dandel (28), a resident of Mantehage Island, North Minahasa, did not think a soul mate is Martha Potu 82-year-old.

The 28-year-old boy showed photos of the blessing of her marriage to Martha, 82-year-old grandmother in South Minahasa, North Sulawesi.

Although closed to within 54 years, a love able to dismiss their age gap.

When found at home of Martha, the Village "Keep Lelema 4", District Tumpaan, Minahasa Selatan, Monday (02/20/2017), two people who had just hold the wedding ceremony on Saturday (18/02/2017) it did not hesitate to show their affection, Sofian embracing Martha's shoulder while serving the interview session. He then said that the beginning he found his moorings.

 "A year ago a call came into my cell phone. Do not know who, I lift and we were introduced. From there we continue to communicate," said Sofian.

Intense communication makes Sofian who was working in a garage in Kotamobagu was found love.


"I've never dated before. I feel in love," said Sofian.

Unable to bear with her feelings, Sofian was later determined to reach Martha in Lelama, a short distance. When you first meet physically with Martha, Sofian was surprised."I do not know if Martha is as old as this. However, we felt really fell in love, and agreed to continue this relationship," said Sofian.

Sensing the match each other, the two people in love is then planning to formalize their relationship. Many of those who oppose the plan, especially the family of Martha. However, their determination was made, must be married.

Sofian was then deliver it to her parents' wedding plans in the island Mantahage. Sofian then invited her parents to see Martha and proposed. When it comes to home Martha in Lelema, Sofian not tell the age of his bride.

"We do not know if his future wife, a grandmother. Very surprised at the time, but what can I say. We see them love each other, so we acquiesced with his choice. Houses, the affairs of the Lord," said Magdalena (60), mother Sofian who accompanied Sofian and Martha when interviewed.

The blessing of their marriage became a scene when one of the guests who attended uploading pictures to social media this pair. Various responses netizen asked. Many scoffed Sofian choice.

"Just as the pastor to say when the blessing, we will be true forever, until the Lord permits our lives," said Sofian.

It was blessed also by Martha. Her husband died 10 years ago. Martha lived alone in his house. Both children are now in Germany and Saudi Arabia.

"I kept praying to God, if they were allowed and given the opportunity, I ask no companion who can take care of me at this old age. There is thought, God sent Sofian," said Martha.

Two people were seen this romantic optimistic now run their household's ark. Call "mommy-daddy" was now a mutual affection greeting Sofian and Martha. Kompas.com

Betwen Alter Ego and Psychopath

Explicitly, double personality is a solution commonly referred to as personality or alter ego, is a condition in which an individual personality split that emerged another personality. And personality is usually an expression of the personality of the main emerging as major private can not realize what he wanted to do.

In simple terms it can be said that there is one person who has a private more than one or two of personal time. Creepy sometimes the patient does not know that he has a dual personality. Two individuals have in one's body also did not know each other more and more terrifying is sometimes his two contradictory nature.

That is why let us introspect ourselves together, whether we realize, we are potentially have a split personality? Do not let the people around us feel disadvantaged because of this dangerous personality.

Generally, multiple personalities happen because caused by several factors. All I know is due to come from families who * sorry * broken home, gets rough treatment in childhood [sexual abuse, physical abuse, etc.].

Someone who has a dual personality, if seen and observed, we can not immediately tell whether a person has a dual personality or not. For appearance looks like normal people and not crazy course. In social relationships, too. Nothing at all peculiarities are shown. In fact, usually someone with a split personality, very good and very friendly towards anyone interlocutor.

With a record that still happens relationship healthy communication. For someone who has multiple personalities, selalunya want to win the debate, and it does not matter with whom he spoke. The opinions of people who have multiple personalities, always felt that pendapatnyalah the most correct and should not be denied. If refuted and debated constantly, he will turn to show his personal character of the original

If you currently feel are close to someone who has the characteristics mentioned above, so it's good for you to be careful. Lest you become a victim of someone who has multiple personalities. However, if you really care about someone who has multiple personalities that, slowly but surely, try to persuade her to 'clean up' the problem to the psychiatrist. While this is not an easy job because someone who has multiple personalities, never felt that she was sick!

Then how about someone who said PSYCHOPATH? The symptoms are as follows;

Often lie, eloquent and shallow. Psychopaths often funny and witty, are typically trying to appear with knowledge in the field of sociology, psychiatry, medicine, psychology, philosophy, poetry, literature, and others. Often clever stories that make a positive, and when caught lying they do not care and will cover it with another lie and manage it as if it were fact. Egocentric and considers himself great. No sense of remorse and guilt. Although sometimes psychopaths admitted his actions, but he was underestimated or denied due to his actions and did not have a reason to care. Happy offense and behavioral problems in childhood. Antisocial behavior in adulthood. Lacking empathy. For the psychopath cut off a chicken's head and cut off the heads of people, it makes no difference. Psychopath too fast in acting aggressively, challenging the guts and fight, sleep late and often out of the house. Impulsive and difficult to control. For the psychopath does not have time to weigh the merits of the action they will do and they do not care about what he has done or thought about the future. Sufferers also be easily triggered anger the small things, it is easy to react to disappointment, failure, criticism, and easy to attack someone just because something trivial. Not able to be responsible and do things for the sake of amusement. Manipulative and fraudulent. Psychopaths also often show dramatic emotions even though they do not mean it. They also do not have a physiological response that is normally associated with fear as his hands sweating, heart palpitations, dry mouth, tense, trembling [for a psychopath is not valid. Because psychopaths often referred to as "cold"]. Live as a parasite because other people for pleasure and satisfaction himself.